Relaxing

I had forgotten what weekends actualy meant until now. When the weekend comes I know I get a lie in, relaxation time and I dont have to think! (much anyway) Apart from the washing, ironing, cleaning and feeding I can relax and enjoy. In fact next weekend is going to be even better, the ex is picking the kids up on Friday and having them all weekend, the kids have not seen him for a month as he has been off in south africa on holiday!! (mmm and pays me £50 a week for 3 kids)(not bad for someone who only claims to the CSA he is on $250 a week!!) Actualy whilst we are on the subject it still really gets my goat.
He has claimed poverty from the word go, I kept my dignity in the divorce as I let him have everything he wanted...£20k from the house, the galaxy car which he sold for £10k, my shares for the company which were worth over £30k and the company itself. What did he end up with, A jacuzi in the back garden, a brand new house with his design inside, A projection tv, computerised house with cctv, A brand new lotus, designer clothes (I am talking £100 a pair of jeans) and so far in the last year he has had 9 holidays abroad, places like South Africa, New York, Prague let alone Spain, Tenerife, France. And he told the CSA he was earning £250 a week so they allocated him to pay me £50 towards the keep of the children, thats not each thats for ALL three. I have no feelings whats so ever for him, I am not jelous of what he has ( in my opinion I have alot more, I am in love and loved by a wonderful man and I have a home and my children)(not all in that order I may add) It just realy grates me to think he can get away will lieing again when it comes down to money. Thats all the man ever used to really love...Money!

OK I am getting off me soap box..... Looking forward to next weekend as it means I can get out on my bike if the weather picks up. And myself and Rick get some our time.

Had a good weekend this week, my brother came down, its been nice seeing him, we had a little spat a few months ago and havnt really had much to do with each other, so it was nice seeing and spending time with him again.

Really loving my job, I have been there 4 weeks now and I dont wake up in the morning thinking "Oh God I have to go to work" The people are great and the work is varied, never the same each day. (still like my weekends better though) Maybe its just because I appreciate them more now.

Oh well another week ahead, then the kids break up for easter, I do hope the school club is running, or Im stuffed!!!